To Find the Best for the Rest of your Life

When it comes to making the decision about choosing a life partner, no one wants to make a mistake. Yet, with a divorce rate of close to 50 percent,it appears that many are making serious mistakes in their approach to finding Mr./Ms.Right! If you ask most couples who are engaged why they’re getting married, they’ ll say: “We’re in love.” perhaps this is the #1mistake people make when they date. Choosing a life partner should never be based on love.

Though this may sound not politically correct, there’s a profound truth here. Love is not the basis for getting married. Rather, love is the result of a good marriage. When the other ingredients are right, then the love will come. Let me say it again: You can’t build a lifetime relationship on love alone. You need a lot more. Here are five questions you must ask yourself if you’re serious about finding and keeping a life partner.

Do we share a common life purpose? Why is this so important? If you’re married for 20 or 30 years, that’s a long time to live with someone. What do you plan to Do with each other all that time?
Travel, eat and jog together? You need to share something deeper and more meaningful. You need a common life purpose. Two things can happen in a marriage. You can grow together, or you can Grow apart. 50 percent of the people out there are growing apart. To make a marriage work, you need to know what you want out of life bottom line-and marry someone who wants the same thing.

Do I feel safe expressing my feelings and thoughts with this person?
This question goes to the Core of the quality of your relationship.
Feeling safe means you can communicate openly with this person. The basis of having good communication is trust – I.e. trust that I won’t get “punished”or hurt for expressing my honest thoughts and feelings. A colleague of mine defines an abusive person as someone with whom you feel afraid to express your thoughts and feelings. Be honest with yourself on this one. Make sure you feel emotionally safe with the person you plan to marry.

Is he/she a mensch?
A mensch is someone who is a refined and sensitive person. How can you
test? Here are some suggestions:
A) Do they work on personal growth on a regular basis?
(B) Are they serious about improving themselves?( or do they keep on
telling you that they’ll never change)

How does he/she treat other people? The one most important thing that makes any relationship work is the Ability to give. By giving, it means the ability to give another person pleasure.
Ask: Is this someone who enjoys giving pleasure to others or are they
wrapped up in themselves and self-absorbed? To measure this, think about the following: How do they treat people whom they do not have to be nice to, such as a waiters, bus boy, taxi driver etc.
Is there anything I’m hoping to change about this person after we’re married? Too many people make the mistake of marrying someone with the intention of trying to “improve” them after they’re married. In conclusion, dating doesn’t have to be difficult and treacherous. The key is to try leading a little more with your head and less with your heart. It pays to be as Objective as possible when you are dating, to be sure to ask questions that will help you get to the key issues. Falling in love is a great feeling, but when you wake up with a ring on your finger, you don’t want to find yourself in trouble because you didn’t do your homework.

If you love your mate and want the relationship to grow and evolve, you’ve got to learn how to
close one eye and not let every little thing bother you. You and your mate have many different expectations, emotional needs, values, dreams, weaknesses and strengths. You are two unique individual children of God who have decided to share a life together. Neither one of you are perfect, but are you perfect for each other? Do you bring out the best in each other? Do you compliment and compromise with each other or do you compete, compare and control? What do you bring to the relationship? Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past mistrust, past pain? You can’t take someone to the altar to alter them. You can’t make someone love you or make someone stay. If you develop self-esteem, spiritual discernment, and “a life” you won’t find yourself making someone else responsible for your happiness or responsible for your pain. Manipulation, control, jealousy, neediness and selfishness are not the ingredients of a thriving, healthy, loving and lasting relationship. Seeking status, sex, and security are the wrong reasons to be in a relationship.

7. DAILY EXCHANGES (a meal, shared activity, a hug, a call, a touch, a
10. GIVING EACH OTHER A SENSE OF BELONGING AND ASSURANCES OF COMMITMENT -lets you find the perfect life partner for you


Corporate Gifts on Weddings

Wedding is an important occasion in a person’s life. A thoughtful corporate gift on this occasion is a wonderful medium to build relationships and increase the bond between the organization and its employees. There are many corporate gifting ideas; you need to choose one according to the recipient’s interest and your budget. For special occasions like wedding, corporate gifts made of silver are unique and exquisite choices. This is apt for gifting employees of high cadre. Gifts made of pure silver; sterling silver and silver plated are available with all corporate gifts dealers across India. You can opt for silver idols; silver photo frames silver key chains, jewel boxes, silver cufflinks, etc. Crystal articles provide the best way to shower your care on your employees on their wedding. There are many varieties and range of crystal articles, its fine finishing and innovative designs make it an ideal corporate gift for marriage. You can opt for crystal showpieces like crystal eagle, birds nest, crystal elephant or love birds or opt for inner laser engraving in crystal showpieces like Taj Mahal, horse, love pairs, etc. Some gifts like crystal glasses and crystal vases also are some awesome gifts that are adored by everyone. Marble gift items can be used for gifting for employees wedding as they are colorful, grand and also long lasting. Marble gift articles could be chosen for gifting on the special occasion like marriage as it come in a glossy finished touch. There are a lot of marble articles available for corporate employee wedding gifts likemarble pen stand, candle holder, flower vases, marble Ganesha idols, marble animal figures, etc. Wrist watches are timeless classic pieces to be given away as a corporate gift for a worthy recipient. Apair of wrist watches designed for Him & Her makes a great wedding gift to the employee and his or her spouse. These watches are available in trendy and classic designs in gold, silver and platinum. To ensure that the wedding gift symbolizes a high degree of affection, luxury and uniqueness, a gold plated gift for employees wedding can be advisable. You can choose gift items like gold plated model of vintage cars, ships and bikes, gold plated idols of Ganesha, Shiva Lingam, laughing Buddha etc. for employee’s marriage. -lets you find the perfect life partner for you

Pillars of a Marriage

There are many principles that, if practiced, can help you build a solid marital foundation. Here are some of those key principles-

“Commitment” is often not a popular word . Our society emphasizes individual rights, personal freedom and mobility. The idea of giving these up because of dedication to another person or loyalty to a relationship makes a lot of people feel trapped.

Commitment means putting your spouse’s needs above your own. Studies show that the best indicator of marital well-being is how well each partner feels his or her needs are being met.

Someone once said, “Communication is to love as blood is to the body.” Take the blood out of the body and it dies. Take communication away and a relationship dies.The kind of communication  talked about isn’t just exchanging information; it’s sharing feelings, hurts, joys. That means getting below the surface and examining the hows and whys of daily life.

But it’s not easy since men and women are different in this area. Research makes it clear that women have greater linguistic abilities than men. Simply stated, she talks more than he. As an adult, she typically expresses her feelings and thoughts far better than her husband and is often irritated by his reluctance to talk. Every knowledgeable marriage counselor will tell you that the inability or unwillingness of husbands to reveal their feelings is one of the chief complaints of wives.

Like conflict resolution, communication is a learned skill — and it’s often hard work. Time must be reserved for meaningful conversations. Taking walks and going out for dinner are conversation inducers that keep love alive.

We live in an instant world — fast foods, cash machines, computer access to information, direct dial communication all over the world.

The problem is we can’t heat up a marriage in the microwave. Relationships just don’t work that way. Marriage, especially takes time and care to become really beautiful. That means learning patience.

When you put two people — any two — in the same house, you’re going to have irritations and annoyances. There are times when I think God designed marriage just to teach me patience. Beyond the day-to-day quirks and foibles you must accept, patience is needed for the long haul. It may take years for you to develop the kind of relationship that’s satisfying to both of you. A lot of people don’t have the patience to wait around for things to evolve. But if you’re willing to sit tight and hang in there, your marriage can be fantastic.

We’re more than a bundle of feelings and physical sensations. There is an inner core of our being, an eternal part of who we are, that represents the deepest, most permanent aspect of marriage.Research shows that couples with strong religious beliefs are far more likely to stay together than those without them. It’s the shared morals and values that hold a husband and wife together. This solid foundation is a fortress against the storms of life. -lets you find the perfect life partner for you

Dawn of a New Life

On your joyful wedding day,
You begin a brand new life.
Friends and family give their gifts
To joyful husband, blissful wife.

But the greatest gift you’ll ever get,
A gift from heaven above,
Is love forever, ending never,
Everlasting love.

You’ll share life’s joy and pleasure;
You’ll have plenty of that, it’s true.
But love is the real treasure
For your new spouse and you.

And if life hands you challenges,
As it does to one and all,
Your love will hold you steady
And never let you fall.

Your wedding day is full of joy;
Tomorrow you cannot see.
But one thing’s sure for the two of you:
The best is yet to be. -lets you find the perfect life partner for you

The Significance that a Marriage Holds..

It is said that marriages are made in heaven and celebrated on earth. The popular belief is true to a great extent as it is a special bond shared between two souls who tie the wedding knot after promising to be companions for a lifetime. It is the physical, mental and spiritual unison of two souls. It brings significant stability and substance to human relationships, which is otherwise incomplete. It plays a crucial role in transferring the culture and civilization from one generation to the other, so that the human race is prospered. The institution of marriage is beneficial to the society as a whole, because it is the foundation of the family, which in turn is the fundamental building block of the society.  Unless this all-important building block is healthy and unified, society itself cannot be healthy and unified. Monogamous marriage stands at the foundation of family life.

While the concept of marriage remains the same across the globe, the way of solemnizing it differs extensively. Different laws have been formulated to legalize the ceremony, which proves to be an important turning point in one’s life. Apart from the laws of marriages, the rituals following during the ceremony are in total contrast to each other. Something that is seen in the western countries cannot be witnessed in other nations in the developing world, primarily due to the contrast in the lifestyle and religious beliefs. One of the prime reasons for the paramount status of marriage is that it is the license for two individuals to live together in a society, without much limitations.

Coming to the subcontinent of India, marriage encompasses a number of meanings, apart from being a legalized way of uniting two people. It bears a lot of social significance. This is primarily because in India, marriage has been considered a way to bring the families of two individuals closer. Since the ancient times, marriages have been celebrated as ceremonious occasions, just like the religious festivals, wherein a number of rituals and customs are followed. A number of ceremonies are observed before, during and after wedding.

The key to successful marriage is love, understanding, mutual respect, trust, commitment and togetherness. While many couples are able to find all the key ingredients in their marital relationships, others find one element or more lacking in their bond. This gives rise to consequences that are not always expected, or desired. This is a reason why a number of couples face adverse consequences, like divorce. One of the visible reasons why married couples find marriage as an intimidating bond is that they face a number of problems, while being in the relationship. Lack of trust, mutual respect, love and understanding contribute to the deterioration of the bond. -lets you find the perfect life partner for you

The Lavish Weddings of India

For these folks, if their wedding day(s) weren’t the happiest days of their lives, then something is seriously wrong. If you thought your wedding was astronomical, try these top three of the most extravagant weddings where broadcasting your wedding vows to the world is as important as showing the lining of your wallet.

Lalit and Yogita

The flamboyant wedding of Lalit and Yogita Jaunapuria is worth 250 crore (54 mill). Lalit, is the son of congress MP and businessman, Kanwar Singh Tanwar. Around 15,000 guests and around 1000 staffs were appointed to serve them. 100 different varieties of delicacies, 30 delicious desserts were served for the guests. The present for the wedding guest were; an expensive shawl, safari suit with 2,100 crore cash and a silver coin. The wedding gift given to the groom was Bell 429 helicopter that values more than 29 Crore and a silver model of a private jet. Bollywood star Neha Dhupia did a performance.

Vineeta and Muqit Teja
The U.K based billionaire Pramod Agarwal gave his daughter Vineeta and her fiance Muqit Teja a grand wedding in Italy’s sea side cit y of Venice. Around 800 guests were entertained at the luxurious San Clemente Palace hotel and resort on the private 17-acre San Clemente Island. Wide range vegetarian Italian and Indian food was served. The Italian delicacies were suggested and made by the Italy’s celebrity Michelin star chef, Federico Salza. Indian decor king Sumant Jayakrishnan converted the San Clemente Palace Hotel into an exaggerated Indian wedding spot. Wedding started with a grand party at the 16th century Scuola Grande Della Misericordia. Shakira gave a performance on day two of the wedding and the Italian theatre director Franco Dragone famous for his work “Cirque du Soleil” also put up a show.  The total wedding cost was approximately 130 crore (28 mill).

Kajal Fabiani and Gaurav Assomull
The socialite Kajal Fabiani’s marriage with Gaurav Assomull, the CEO of luxury purveyor Marigold Group, enjoyed their wedding in Monaco. The total cost was 44 crore (9.5 mill). This is most sophisticated wedding witnessed by the Mediterranean principality. The party was held in the Monte Carlo lounge bar. The Mehendi ceremony was at hotel Hermitage, one of the luxurious hotels in Monaco. Assomull led the ‘Baarat’ in a white horse and 2 Indian elephants were brought for good luck. Kajal’s favorite designer, JJ Valaya designed the wedding dress outfit for both of them. The wedding happened at Salle Garnier, the post wedding treat for 600 guests, a cocktail party was at Casino Atrium. The best part of the wedding was the finale concert with the hip hop star Akon.

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Wedding Cake Extravaganza !

When it comes to weddings, everyone likes them to be larger than life. When it is wedding time, we barely like to compromise on anything and want to get the very best. And when it is the wedding cake in question, well, the bigger and yummier it is, the better! Your wedding cake indeed adds up to the wedding extravaganza. Cakes have forever been the center of attraction, in nearly all western wedding celebrations and it has also made its way into the Indian wedding celebrations . Now, who doesn’t love an ornate, three-tier wedding cake? With the cake stealing much limelight in the event, it is only fair you get a cake as luscious also. Treat your guests to a sumptuous serving of your exotic wedding cake and get them talking about it for days to come.A gorgeously decked up wedding cake, which not only looks good, but also tastes heavenly,will ensure that your wedding ends in great style. Here are some exciting flavors to choose from, for your D-day cake.
Think wedding cake, think vanilla! Vanilla cakes make for elegant wedding cakes, with their rich flavor and blissful taste. You can go for vanilla sponge cakes, filled with vanilla syrup and coated with raspberry preserve and vanilla butter cream or the traditional vanilla cake, with generous layers of vanilla syrup, vanilla butter cream filling and vanilla icing. Mango vanilla cake, filled with mango mousseline and butter cream, makes for another excellent choice. To add further zing to your wedding celebration, you can try the vanilla rum torte, sprinkled with spiced rum and layered with rum custard.
If you are another die-hard chocolate fanatic, you can try giving a shot to these chocolate cakes. Rich dark chocolate cake, layered with Belgian chocolate ganache and Bailey’s cream liqueur, promises to leave your guests begging for more. A rich chocolate cake layered with luscious chocolate mousse would make your wedding an irresistibly tempting affair. You can also consider white chocolate mousse cake, black forest cake, chocolate and orange cake and even chocolate hazelnut torte chocolate cake for an unforgettable wedding!
For others, who simply can’t seem to get over the rich taste of coffee, try Tiramisu light sponge cake soaked with espresso coffee and rum and filled with a sweetened mascarpone cream. For Cappuccino lovers, going for Cappuccino torte vanilla chiffon cake would make your wedding cake as memorable as the wedding itself!
If you swear by the fruity flavor, getting raspberries or strawberries and cream cake can tickle your taste buds. Try out the strawberry grand mariner cake that comes with chunks of strawberry and orange liqueur or lemon blackberry cake that boasts of fresh blackberry jam filling and zest of lemon. Peaches and cream vanilla cake with fresh peach mouse and peaches and custard and white chocolate mousse promises to be an exotic delight for your mouth.
For more exotic cake lovers, here’s your pick. Go for swirled marble cake that boasts of vanilla bean syrup and sour cream fudge icing. You can also go for Italian rum cream and fruit cake, which comes loaded with rum syrup, vanilla pastry cream filling and vanilla butter cream icing. -lets you find the perfect life partner for you